I've decided to use this space to provide what I feel are useful tips to the first timer who is looking to hire an escort service. Some basic do's and don'ts. To address a couple of terms first before proceeding:    What is the "hobby" and what is a "hobbyist" or "hobbiest"? The lifestyle of hiring escorts or visiting massage parlors for pleasure or entertainment is popularly referred to as the "hobby" within the sub-culture. Escorts and those who provide "sensual massage" services are commonly referred to as "providers".    The first thing I would suggest is the purchase of a prepaid cell phone. The main reason is because it wouldn't be a good idea to set up an appointment with an escort using your home phone number, particularly if you're married and your wife doesn't know.    As you start your search for an escort service, please be aware that there are two types: independents who work for themselves, and then there are agencies. Depending on what your budget is and what kind of service or "look" you are seeking, to ensure that your money is well spent, I would suggest that you do adequate research. That's the key, unless if money is no object to you. Hiring an escort can be rather expensive. Most escorts who advertise online charge in the $180-$300 per hour range for their time, although there are others who may charge in excess of 1K per hour. So in terms of research, and to ensure you have the best time possible, here is what I suggest:   When narrowing down your selections, I would suggest that you give more consideration to the the escorts (and agencies) who have their own websites and/or have reviews on their services posted to escort review sites. In other words,narrow your selections down to those with proven "track records" or who have the best reputations possible, as opposed to the fly by night offers usually found on Craigslist. On most of escort websites they'll have a section which contains links to reviews posted on their services, so that interested parties can check them out.    One thing to keep in mind, however. Some escort review sites are more "biased" than others. Because of this I would suggest that in order to get the whole picture on an escort's services, you may want to do a google search to locate a couple of other escort review sites, and then do a search on those sites to see what kind of reviews (if any) have been posted on the escort(s) you're interested in. Are the reviews published on those sites as positive as the reviews which the escort has decided to present on her own site, or do they paint a different picture entirely?    On certain pages on an escort's website, as well as in the reviews themselves, a lot of secret "code" is bandied about. If you'd like to understand or decipher what a lot of this 'code' or terms mean, check out the following:  Common Hobby Acronyms & Abbreviations    When attempting to set up an appointment over the phone with an independent escort you've seen advertised on the internet, it's never a good idea to discuss money or prices with them over the phone. They will likely terminate the phone call if you do. It's not recommended that you haggle prices. Their fees are almost always mentioned somewhere in their website/ad, so there should be no reason at all to discuss it over the phone. I wouldn't recommend discussing prices over the phone unless if that info isn't already made clear in their ads or website.    Some escorts are friendly to first timers, while others are not "newbie" friendly, which means that they're only interested in visiting with prospective clients who can provide references. They'll usually make this clear on their websites and in advertising. "References" simply means whether or not you have seen other escorts and if they are willing to vouch for you. If you are interested in an escort who requires references although you don't have any, you may want to send them an email (or private message) and ask them if there is an "alternative" way to screen. However, keep in mind that you may not receive back a response.    When calling to set an appointment with an independent escort or an agency, you can either meet up at the escort's place (incall) or she can meet you at your place (outcall) at the agreed upon time. If the escort provides an incall, it may be preferable to meet her there rather than paying for your own motel/hotel room. For one thing, if the escort isn't able to make the appointment, either because something suddenly came up or some other issue, you could be out of the money you paid to rent the room. I personally wouldn't recommend paying for a hotel room (outcall) for a first time experience unless if you have a "back-up plan" (meaning another escort waiting in the wings) if the independent provider you scheduled with fails to show, or if you're dealing with a reputable agency.    When you know the appointment is set, pre-count and slip the money for escort's donation for her time as specified on her website/ad inside of a plain white envelope. Do not seal the envelope. If you are meeting the escort at her place (incall), they'll give you directions to the hotel, and when it's about time for the appointment to start, they'll usually call you on your cell with the room # after you've waited in the parking lot for a few minutes. When you make your way up to the room and as you enter, place the envelope on a dresser or nightstand, where it can be clearly seen by the escort. One thing you don't want to do is discuss the envelope or its contents with the escort. Since it's your first time doing this, you may be understandably nervous, so a good idea would be to take a few minutes to engage the escort in some small talk. Maybe start out by complimenting the escort on her look or attire. Just try to be friendly, and most of all, relax. Downing an alcoholic beverage before the encounter could help calm nerves, but don't drink too much. The escort may ask you a few harmless questions to keep the conversation going- just be open and honest in your responses.

 

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